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Happy Old Year

“Happy Old Year!” said no one, ever. Have you ever thought about how strange it would be if people said that greeting instead of “Happy New Year”? Americans value innovation and change. New things are usually valued higher than old things. This is reflected in American culture when people seem to be more motivated to try new things and set new goals on January 1st.

Often you hear people say “a new year, means a new you!” The new year is a time when past mistakes can either be forgotten or redone. Many Americans create “new year’s resolutions”. These resolutions can be shifts in a lifestyle, or decisions that are made, and sometimes new choices are put into effect that were different than before. There’s something about starting from scratch and becoming more fully who we are meant to be that ignites this desire in us.

Trying Something New

Three years ago, one of my goals for the new year was to start a blog. Excitedly, I wrote my first post and even centered it around the word “new”. I wrote four entries in two months, then stopped. So much for my new year’s goal. This is why I dislike creating them, because I make a list and because I only accomplished some of it, or didn’t follow through, I end up feeling like a failure. Frustration sets in that I even made a list in the first place.

There’s an American idiom that says “old habits die hard”, meaning it’s difficult to change someone’s behavior when they’ve done something for many years. People can’t change overnight, yet somehow the idea of a new year tends to motivate people to believe that it can happen quickly.

Desire for Change

As a Christian, I believe that God is in the process of changing and transforming me not into a better version of myself but into more of what He’s like – full of goodness, faithfulness, truth, and love just to name a few. The beautiful thing is, he’s also doing this in the world. There’s a verse in the Bible that says “Behold, I am making all things new.” Even God sees that where this world is, is not where it’s supposed to be. That’s where the desire for change and a longing to be different come from.

This year, should you decide to make a list of goals, remember to:

  • Begin with the end in mind. Think about where you want to be this time next year. What changes do you need to implement so that your desired outcome or result is accomplished?
  • Make your goals S.M.A.R.T.: “Specific, Measurable, Actionable, Realistic, and Time-based”. Maybe if I had thought through how to make my blog goal “SMART”, like blogging twice a month for a year, I would have continued blogging, instead of having an unclear deadline of when I would start and stop.
  • Keep your goal list short. Don’t make a list of ten things. Start with one to three things and if you complete those, you can always add more later.
  • Change can take time. Some goals are accomplished at once and others take years of progress and are made up of smaller goals along the way.

Happy new year to you, and may you pursue goodness, truth, and love in your own life and in the world around you this 2023!

Bridges International

Bridges International

This blog post was adapted from bridgesinternational.com/blog